Update: Wife Beaten By Husband Begs Court Not To Send Him To Jail
BVI Platinum News
Updated: August 24, 2012 3:04 pm AST
Published: August 20, 2012 7:40 am AST
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A woman who was beaten by her husband over claims that she cheated on him, has begged the Magistrate not to send him to jail.

Michael Ashby on the day of his arraignment, August 17, pleaded guilty to assaulting his Guyana-born wife.

During his reappearance in court this week, the 38 year-old woman asked the sitting Magistrate to just give her husband a warning or send him for counseling.

The woman, who has been married to Ashby for some five years, said she only works four days a week and he assists her tremendously. However, she admitted that she is afraid of him when he gets upset, but he does not control her. Further, the woman said she misses her husband a lot.

Ashby was granted bail in relation to a separate charge of robbery. He was granted bail in the amount of $100,000 signed with two sureties and $40,000 of the amount has to be paid in cash. The construction worker was also ordered to report to the Police Station four times per week and surrender his travel documents. The Magistrate attached the same bail offer for the robbery case to the assault case.

According to court records, the alleged assault occurred on Friday, July 20 as Ashby was taking his wife to confront a man he accused her of sleeping with.

The woman was at home around 9:55 am when Ashby called her out of their home and used indecent language as he accused her of sleeping with another man.

The woman denied the accusation, but according to Police investigations, Ashby insisted that it was true because the person she slept with had told him so.

They both agreed to go meet the person; however, the court was told that when they got in the vicinity of the old prison on Main Street, Ashby struck his wife in her left eye and continued to curse her.

Ashby reportedly said that he did not care and wanted to know why his wife would sleep around on him.

The two continued and when they reached the car wash in Lower Estate, Ashby confronted the gentleman who he claimed was sleeping with his wife.

Further, the allegations state that the gentleman started to laugh and pointed at Ashby and told him, "you are a (expletive); you are a (expletive)". The man then turned to Ashby's wife and told her, "GT girl don't worry with he at all".

The prosecution pointed out that Ashby's wife walked away, but with her eye starting to swell, she asked her husband for money to see the doctor and he refused.

She later made a report to the Police on July 25. She was taken to Peebles Hospital and it was observed that she had a blood-shot eye.

Ashby will return to court on October 1.
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LOVE? that is the joke of the moment. the only thing she cares about is the money in Ashby pockets. If he can't see that, then something is wrong with his head. The woman pulled a bale of wool over his head. These women from other countries know how to play the game on these men here in... more
August 27 at 11:08pm  |  Like   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
Please your honor, don't send my husband to jail, I miss him. After he nearly blow out your eye. Lady, you have a problem.Husband or not, go out there and work for yours.See what happen when you depend on a man for cash assistance? You get caught up in that cycle of dependency, never depend on a... more
August 27 at 10:58pm  |  Like1 Person like this.   Dislike
Woman to Woman | Report Abuse
Ladies, please don't depend on a man to support you $$$. When you depend on a man for his $$$, you are falling into the trap of dependency then he have a hold over you. The days of a woman depending on a man's money is over. To many women is falling into this trap. There is nothing like having... more
August 26 at 11:26am  |  Like8 People like this.   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
PIZZA PIE | Report Abuse
First of all, the WANNA BE PLAYER who admit to sleeping with Ashby wife who made that LAME outdated statement about "GT girl don't worry with he at all". should have been the one to give her the money to see a doctor. Ashby was wrong for hitting his wife but, that lame duck wannabe player should... more
August 25 at 7:24pm  |  Like4 People like this.   Dislike
Home Grown | Report Abuse
Some of these women come here and they marry these guys not for real love as they say. I am going to preach it as it is, they marry them for their own lust of money and convenience It is an easy way to get status and obtain a local passport. To hear some of the stories of these foreign women... more
August 25 at 3:55pm  |  Like5 People like this.   Dislike3 People dislike this.
Sight | Report Abuse
Sick relationship they have going on there buddy. This is a mature enough woman and Ashby is a young punk. Lady, sort out yourself from in this foolish crap! Husband or no husband don't let Ashby be having you like no *** in front other man with his accusations. Rise up and let the police... more
August 25 at 12:20pm  |  Like3 People like this.   Dislike
Gummy Bear | Report Abuse
Sorry to say this but, this is a weak woman, she allow her husband to take away all her power. A woman should never allow any man to take her power away from her. Judge? I hope you don't listen to her and put his fast hand behind in jail for a while. It is quite obvious that she is afraid of... more
August 24 at 4:44pm  |  Like1 Person like this.   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
You know what? I am a woman and I will always have another woman's back but, not this time. A man beat you down and you go to court and beg the judge not to send him to prison. once a man lay his hands on you, he will continue to lay his hands on you. I don't understand some of these women, Are... more
August 24 at 4:32pm  |  Like8 People like this.   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
VILander | Report Abuse
"The woman, who has been married to Ashby for some five years, said she only works four days a week and he assists her tremendously."

That means she can't survive on her own without him, it has nothing to do with love or fear, she needs hiom out of jail so he can give her $$$.
August 24 at 5:08pm  |  Like9 People like this.   Dislike3 People dislike this.
Too many women cannot stand on thier own their own financially so they stay in all kinds of situations.
August 24 at 9:55pm  |  Like5 People like this.   Dislike
homegrown | Report Abuse
What is wrong with these women who is beaten down by their husbands and boyfriends, go to court either drop the charges or beg the magistrate not to send the man to jail? The bottom line is the police need to keep out of these women business and let them take their licks.. They love their men... more
August 24 at 1:38pm  |  Like9 People like this.   Dislike4 People dislike this.
KIRKO BANGZ | Report Abuse
This dude soft as .....! You take her to the man and he CLOWNED you in front of your wife. Instead of you WHOOPING the man for clowning you, you felt good about whooping her? AHAA Ashby you are a (expletive). And a sorry one we might add.
August 24 at 12:31pm  |  Like12 People like this.   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
get away slick, deal with your own problems lol
August 24 at 4:15pm  |  Like1 Person like this.   Dislike1 Person dislike this.
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